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    December 31

    The Last Blog of 2008 - "A Vintage Year"

    (Above Photo - A handmade Christmas Gift from Kalinda)

    2008 has been an eventful and lousy year for many. It is the year when many unprecedented events took place – The Biggest Snow Storm in Southern China, The Worst Hurricane of Myanmar, The Massive EarthQuake of Sichuan, The Chinese Olympic, The Mumbai Bombing, The Financial Tsunami, The Elected Black President of USA, The Tibet Riot, The Chinese Milk Scare and The Fall of Asian Leaders (Malaysia, Japan, Pakistan, Thailand and Taiwan).  It is also the year when we witnessed a weakest USA and a strongest China. A year when we have to constantly remind ourselves that lives are indeed fragile - and we were helpless at nature's worst moments. It is also the year when we should wake up and remind ourselves about those dubious donation scandals of many churches, temples and foundations. It is also the year when we learnt the hard lesson how investment can go surprisingly wrong - when you least expected.

    For me, it has been a "Vintage Year" - it is the year when I saw change took place. From Shanghai to Hong Kong, I bid farewell to a good team of friends in China and started my new life in Hong Kong. It has been a dramatic year in my career. With a positive mind and the help of my Shanghai team, I bridged the business seamlessly over. Over in HK, I was truly blessed with a new team of capable "angels", we achieved the impossibilities within a short span of 6 months. It is something I am very proud of. We achieved a couple of "world firsts" in the world of Duty Free. And for the first time in the agency's history, our relationships with our clients and performance reached a new peak!

    Despite the first half (transisition) of 2008, many painful changes were actually for the better. Alicia is happily married and is now enjoying a fantastic career. Clare has a great home, great career and blissfully married. Lisa just got engaged! And my old pal, Calvin Mao - he is now a happy father! Not to forget my favourite Rebecca, she is now a successful manager in her new job - and I heard good words about her - even in Hong Kong. For Tracy, she scored a couple of "excellent ratings" for her works in GTR.

    In Hong Kong, I enjoyed a dynamic second half. My family is happily settled. Elkan is enjoying school and looking forward to go school! Except for the small cozy house, we are overly happy with our new home (yes...looking for a bigger unit next year). Lots of visitors in Hong Kong (double of Shanghai's) and we were indeed thrilled with their presence. Our friends and family members are also doing very well - Echo and Francis added a new kid in their house, Johnny (& Ming) is a father too, Scott is finally attached with beautiful Yiyi, Joanne is running Caffine well, Juliana and Duuk are to-be-parents, Yixi, Gareth and Hovman got their ideal jobs, Yei is getting hitched with Summer finally and my family had their first rare group tour to Taiwan and Hong Kong! (Mmm..same as my in-laws too!)

    2008 has been a difficult year but overall, I became a stronger and better man after all the uncertainties and big changes. It takes a lot of courage to face change. Indeed, chao filters losers and winners. And I am happy that we have been very successful winners in this chaotic times.
     

    Wahbiang Xmas Party 2008!



    The Wahbiang Christmas Party has always been a very important and significant gathering for my clan of very very good friends. It has been a tradition started back in 1993 and we have  been meeting faithfully for the past 15 years. Since we started to have our own houses, we took turns to host this event. It is an annual event which I always look forward to and one I solely missed so much. For this is the one event that brings deep joys and connections to all of us.

    Over the years, there have been big changes in all our lives. People come and go - that is a nature progression of things. Some bonds were strengthen and others waiting for a chance to be reconnected. I was pretty worried that this tradition of hosting the annual Christmas gathering will cease after I left for China two years ago. But I am so happy that my good friends (from Dunman, DCS, Temasek) stick togther and organised it so well.

    Gone are our tradition to bring good cause to the poor and sickly (that is my only regret). Over the years, BoTian Home for the Aged has became such a big organised home with good funding. Back then, we were only struggling students - we don't have the kind of money we had today - we decided not to spend good money on clubs and dinners during Christmas and used this "dinner money" for the poor - that is the reason we have been having humble Christmas gathering at home. It was indeed a good begining to our noble gesture. We should retain this goodwill of "giving" in our daily lives - not just for Christmas. It makes the counting down to Christmas Day more meaningful to all.

    This year, Joanne hosted the Christmas and we had our 1st ever afternoon gathering. Kalinda took up the heavy role to organise the whole party. Trust me, it is a heavy role when you have to "round up" all the busy friends. I was guilty for not being around - as I took my wife, kid and Tracy up to Korea. Sam and family were in Italy. And I wonder where's Jimmy too. Yeah... we should be there.. no matter what. Perhaps, that is the least effort I should put in in my coming years to come.

    Friends are the most important asset - second to family. They are the one who see me through all main stages of my lives - from my graduation day to my wedding night and to the moment when I became a father. Some friends were with me during my times of career...following and supporting throughout my days in VOXmedia, Caffeine and now Ogilvy. And some friends I miss so much are now away in Beijing and Shanghai.

    I hope it is not too late to wish all of my friends a good festive season! Merry Christmas to all my Wahbiang Clan.
    And to all who read my blog so faithfully. 
    December 29

    Soul of Asia Part 2 - Going Home


    Finally, after a good long 7D6N holiday in South Korea
    - we are now packing our bags heading back home (to Hong Kong). This has been a fantastic journey - and I have only good words about Korea - it is certainly a city worth-visiting! And it offers more than what I can ever imagined! The "Visit Korea 2009 TVC" says it all "My camera can only captured so much. For the rest of Seoul, I put in my heart." It is just so true!

    Korea, coined as the "Soul of Asia", is a great shopping and food paradise. Seoul City is a very clean, systematic and modern place. Most importantly, Seoul didn't lost her Korean identity like most big cities out there (due to modernisation and over-cloning of international brands). The city retains a big portion of her own identity - in food, designs, fashions, handicrafts, architecture and her People. Korea is a pretty affordable travel destination (living standard is about somewhere inbetween Shanghai and Hong Kong). And don't worry, you can't go wrong if you decide to visit Korea the free and easy way - most of the the locals don't speak English (quite a number speak good mandarin instead!) but you should be able to overcome that easily. Simply use hand and body language - you can make almost 80% of what they are trying to communicate. And yes, keep a good faith, big smile and open mind.



    Certainly, we (including Tracy, Elkan, Feli and myself) love Korea so so so much! (For my Elkan, it must be the "snow" or "cold white sands" which he was so crazy about.) Felicia loves the things here so much that she is asking me for a bigger house so she can buy back those things to put at home. Tracy is gaga over those local Korean men.. Half the time, she is eyeing those men (instead of watching for the traffic!) For me... food and sex come in a package...the food is great! (Darn, even Tracy can find food to eat - we thought there is nothing for her except Korean BBQ!) But for sex... sigh, I never get any chance to check out the infamous love motels or any pretty sexy Korean babes yet. For most of us, Korea is a little Taiwan-Australia-Shanghai-Singapore mix. It is so comfortable and beautiful that we really wish we can extend our stay here for another month.


    Enough said, here are our "Top Must Visit Places" in Seoul:
    (Enjoy the pixs! For more photos, please click here to view at my PICASA)


    NUMBER 1 - INSADONG STREET
    Certainly my favourite streets - lots of cultural, designers stuffs here. Lots to see and many small back alleys to explore!



    NUMBER 2 - LOTTE WORLD
    For small kids and those who don't want to grow up - The Lotte World is an eye-opener! The indoor park is far more impressive than the outdoor one (which is pretty similar to the Disneyland). One of our best rides is the "Hot Air Balloon" - a suspended ride that brings you up to the ceiling of the big hall and you "float" around. The only bad thing about this place is the long slow queue. Be patient...some rides can take you more than 90 minutes to queue!



    NUMBER 3 - NAMDAEMUN MARKET
    The "SiangYang" of Seoul - A big wholesale market that offers lots of goods (toys, handicrafts, bags, shoes, clothings, food and more!) Easy to bargain - no need Korean - just press the numbers on the calculator. Try not to discuss the pricing with each other in Mandarin as some of them speak fluent Mandarin. I say - best stick to your own dialects.



    NUMBER 4 - CHANGDEOKGUNG
    There are 5 Royal Palaces in Seoul - and this one is on the United Nations World Heritage List. Not as big as the forbidden city of Beijing, you can only visit the Changdeokgung Palace with a guide. So, make sure you get your timing right (3 slots per day) for the English-speaking guide.



    NUMBER 5 - CHEONGGYE STREAM
    Sitting right beside the Cityhall, this stream or "canal-looking" is a great place to stroll. It is like back to my old Kampong days when me and my friends walk on the "banks of our Katong Logang". Haaa... seriously, it is a very beautiful place... If only our Boat Quay or Singapore River offer walks like this.



    NUMBER 6 - SEOUL TOWER
    Be prepared to take a bumpy and crowded bus ride and then, walk up the 45-degree steep slope up! For those who never been to a tower, this is quite a good recommendation. Check out the "lover locks fence" (thousands of pad-locks with wishes and love messages hanging by the wire-fence). For Teddy Bear lovers, do visit the "Teddy Bear Museum". Best time to go is around 5-7pm - The sunset view from the top (at 380m high) is enchanting!



    NUMBER 7 - MYUNGDONG STREETS
    Big brands. Big showrooms. Unlike those small congested shops you see in shopping mall, this street is filled with "blocks of brands" - each brand having their own individual space. Lots of space for unique display of their products. A great space for product browsing and shopping!


    Wow! This is quite a long blog! Hope you find these pixs and recommendations attractive! For a minute, I want to apply a "tourism-journalist" job - cos I love taking photos, eating, sight-seeing, playing, shopping and... reporting!


    December 26

    Soul of Asia Part 1 - Our White Christmas



    This is one of those rare moments when I can take out my Macbook and blog during transit. It is another 3-hour ride from YongPyong to Seoul city.

    Today is Christmas Day (and our 3rd day in Korea). Now, I am tying this blog in a bus, seating beside Elkan (yah…he is busy with his PSP game). Felicia and Tracy are seating behind us, dozing away.

    With another 4 more days to go, this trip has been one of the best holidays we had in a long long time. Christmas has never been so white for me. For all of us, it is our first White Christmas – Lucky Elkan, he is only 4 and I have to wait 34 years to enjoy this.

    It was a long way from Hong Kong. We took more than 12 hours in transit from our house to the hotel in YongPyong (3-hour ride from the Seoul). The 1st day was challenging and confusing for us. The Koreans don’t speak much English and they seem to understand our questions. There is no tour guide or pre-booked transfer – we have to make our way from Inchon Airport to the ski resort. Thanks goodness, we bumped into a Singapore family (in one of the subway) who was also traveling to snow mountains. That concludes a fact – Singaporeans are everywhere!

    Prior to this trip, we spent a bomb on our winter clothing and this investment is worthwhile. At minus 5-6 degrees, we don’t feel a thing! I was hoping the cold will “lesser” Elkan’s hyperness – instead, the snow triggered the monster inside him! For the last 48 hours, he was an unstoppable bug! It was a joy to see him so happy and hyper. But it was also a bigger pain to endure his endless whining and complains.

    Yesterday was eventful. We took a 20-minute cable-car ride up to the “Dragon Peak” (1050m high) – There was a snowstorm brewing, strong wind and lots of snow. Visibility was only about 80-100m. Tracy, Elkan and Felicia were possessed – they ran out into the storm and played snow! I slipped and had a nasty bump and my butt still aches now. The view from the top is beautiful!





    Later in the evening – we decided to go for our Olympic style snow skiing. I took snowboarding and Tracy went for the ski. Of course we did well! Tracy took the “slightly advance” slope and she took a bad impact.



    Christmas Eve was a quiet affair up the mountain. No countdown or fireworks. Just a bunch of youngsters selling Christmas cakes at our hotel. We spent the last hour of Christmas Eve visiting the “Winter Sonata” museum. The snow came just minutes before Christmas – so powdery and fine – now I know what snowflakes mean… it is just so beautiful.



    Haaa… Elkan just dozed off, still holding the PSP in his hand. Guess it is time for me to catch a short nap. Next stop – Good decent shopping and eating! (No more snow and ski! Yeah!)

    Merry Christmas!


    Framed for 7 Years



    What a sweet surprise! For the past 7 long years, we were still our bridal shop's "Poster Couple" - our poster sat at the main entrance of the shop! Felicia brought Elkan there to take a photo. It was such a meaningful and special shot. (Guess what, Elkan can only recognise me and not Feli! Haaa... mmm..guess I am still as young and handsome like before!) The boss of the shop recognised them and they chatted like good old friends. It was an unusual reunion. We were very touched when the boss of the shop insisted that we take back her favourite photo. Happy and sad, this visit marked the end of our 7-year "endorsement". Finally, after a long 2555 days, this poster finally went back to its rightful owners - now sitting in our house in Singapore.

    December 12

    Soulful of Songs



    Here am I, sitting comfortably in my living song, watching the blinking Christmas lights across the straits, listening to the "Vocaluptuous" CD that Kalinda gave me. A perfect blend of love - the cold December weather and these soulful songs - it just makes one want to fall in love again.  Right now... I just can't wait to spend my 1st White Christmas with my loved ones in Korea...

    (I have never recommend any CD Album in my blog but this is certainly one too good Singapore album to miss. You can get them at HMV at SGD19.90. Part of their proceeds go to Charity. Checkout their song and website here: http://www.vocaluptuous.com.sg/music/The_Christmas_Song.MP3)

    “Awe-inspiring versatility and singing prowess delivered in spine-tingling fashion”
    Today
    “So delicious, they’re hard to resist.”
    The Straits Times
    December 10

    Back to "1 Degree 22N"



    Another very happy-go-maken home trip indeed. Met all my buddies and my lovely families. As usual, the gatherings were short, food-filling and "rushy" (Stella, Uncle Asty, Chester and my dad had to rush off somewhere) - but I am happy - at least I managed to gather all my families and friends together. The warm welcome and friendly transports (by Uncle Benny, Jimmy, Scott, Duuk and Gareth) justified why I still haven't got my driving licence. I am so spoilt by their pamperings and hospitalities. (Of course, Lightbulb Meijie is not happy being stuck with us on "Exile Island"... but I got him an early Xmas gift!)

    Didn't do much shopping or karaoke - cos' Mummy Juli gets tired easily and my pocket was burnt after paying extra $300 for a video camera that I should buy in Hong Kong. (Damn it, I say - I should have come back to HK to buy - I am sure Meijie and my dear wife are shaking their heads now). Wanted to spend a good weekend on Sentosa - sunbathing or babe-watching - but in the end, the group of us hid under a shady hut, drinking cocktails, watching Lao Chiow Bu-s. And in the evening, I wanted to see musical fountain - but can't fight the temptation of local food - we had nice, oily sinful carrot cakes and fried noodles at Zion Road. (Surely I can afford to eat more - cos' a recent test revealed that Gareth is 89kg, Jimmy 86kg and I am slightly over 85kg - the lightest amongst the heavy-weights! Surely, Duuk is heavier than me cos Juli always threw her weight around on him!)




    For 2 nights, I slept at 3am - we were the only clubees at OneDegree15. Yixi, Lusia, Scott, Kalinda, Jimmy, Duuk and Juliana were there with me on 2 seperate nights - drinking and eating fried suppers! Yifu supposed to join us - but laziness got into his way - next time, got to lure him with Gareth's hot and spicy harddisk - that is perhaps the only goodies he is after. And Joanne - only my mother asked for her - and I was told that she went to Phuket for a "inter-transmission". Mmm... Jimmy and Serene should plan one soon.

    The happiest of all should be Elkan and Qiqi (and Felicia, haa..she is FREE). The 2 kids finally met again after their last heart-breaking farewell in Hong Kong. Within seconds, two of them were back to their best acts - terrorising their poor grannies and parents. What can I say - they (old folks) asked for it! Sigh, no gain, no pain, huh? Wondered why they are still requesting for more? 

    p/s (Thanks Kalinda for your sweet CD... I am enjoying it right now. Hope you are making my Xmas Gift right now. Chups, you look prettier with the extra weight. Sister Jovel, get well soon, did you passed Elkan the sore eyes? Aunt Amy, made up your mind for CNY? Oh yes, must stresssed this point - I am actually lighter than Jimmy and Gareth!)